Okay… The holidays are over and we are at the half way point of the first quarter of a new year…..So the question is…What has changed in how you are doing (or not doing) your business to make real money?

We are all prisoners of our habits, and especially after a certain age, it is tough to “change”.  It’s been said, that if we keep on doing what we’ve always done, we’ll keep on getting what we have always gotten….but that is not true anymore!  In today’s competitive marketplace we may not even be able to survive doing the “normal”.  Today’s market requires innovation, creativity, and execution, using new tools, systems, strategies and the biggee: A willingness to CHANGE! 

If we don’t change who is going to notice?  From losing that extra five pounds to adding another day of exercise, or making more money…unless you have a plan and a coach to help you stay focused, there are no real outside consequences.

We are in a world that requires dollars for sustenance, survival and comfort, not to mention that money has been the measure of success.  So with that said, there are several experts out there that offer us a new path to create more guaranteed profits at this time next year if we are willing to embrace a few small changes.

Don’t have time??? Not an excuse anymore! With NAR’s FREE Realtor University Webinars, you can learn from top experts anytime, anywhere. Al l you need is the willingness to learn, a computer and a little willingness to CHANGE!  Here are some great resources:

Follow a Plan – Expert coach, author and speaker Carla Cross offers the best first step, and that is to have an effective business plan.  She did a brilliant job presenting what you need to know in the Realtor University free webinar last month available on line.  http://budurl.com/BizPlan2010withCarla

List for More $$ – More expertise to increase your bottom line with listings comes from super coach, author and speaker, Bernice Ross.  Bernice’s webinar offers solid direction on how to list more properties at higher commissions in 2010 by developing a premium marketing plan and use Web 2.0 strategies to get the listings signed up, priced right and sold!  Her million dollar information is offered FREE. Click here to get one on one direction:  http://budurl.com/ListMore4MoreMoney

Be the First Agent they call – Did you know that an NAR survey shows that 60-80% of consumers work with the first agent who responds to them?  If you are not up to speed on the latest applications that the top agents are using to out respond and out communicate their competitors, you need to get with it!  Expert and social media instructor Amy Chorew offers an information-packed power hour on the PDA applications top salespeople all over the world are using to respond, engage and connect with hot prospects. Get the scoop by clicking on: http://budurl.com/AmysKillerAps4U

There is a WEALTH of information available to agents that are sick and tired of not making the money they want.  The choice is yours to take advantage of these valuable online webinars that are guaranteed to take your profits from dull to dynamic! WARNING: It does require CHANGE on your part!

Are you ready???  Then check out these and others at: http://budurl.com/FreeNARWebinars4U

Do it! And we’ll see you in the winner’s circle…same time next year!

Bio: Terri Murphy is an author, speaker, communication consultant, and author of 5 books, including her latest with Donald Trump. She is the founder and Pres. of WomensWisdomNetwork.com and serves as CIO of U. S. Learning in Memphis and one of NAR’s GAME CHANGER 2010 Coaches. Email: Terri@TerriMurphy.com – And for more webinar resources visit: http://budurl.com/NARFREEWebinars

iLearningGlobal is pleased to announce Don Hutson as the featured faculty speaker
on this week’s Millionaire Mentor Session.

Please join us on
Saturday, February 6th
9am  PST

Hear Don Hutson speak on:
“Turning Your Stress Into Strength In Challenging Times” 

Dial In Details: 
Dial In:
646/519/5830

Access code:
7244

Don Hutson’s career in speaking, management and sales have brought him many honors.
He successfully worked his way through the University of Memphis, graduating with a degree in Sales.

After becoming the #1 salesperson in a national training organization, he established his own
training firm and shortly thereafter was in demand as a professional speaker. 

 Today Don’s client list includes over two-thirds of the Fortune 500 Companies, and he is
featured in over 100 training films. He is Chairman & CEO of U.S. Learning and makes some
75 speaking appearances per year.  Perhaps you have seen him on national television where
he is regularly featured on both PBS and TSTN.

Don is the author of nine books including the New York Times bestseller,
The One Minute Entrepreneur which he co-authored with Ken Blanchard.
Don is a member of the prestigious Speakers Roundtable. He was elected by his
peers to the presidency of the National Speakers Association, and has received
its coveted “Cavett Award,” as member of the year. He has also been
inducted into NSA’s Speakers Hall of Fame. 

Visit Don Hutson’s website at http://www.DonHutson.com

We look forward to having you on the call!

Details:
When: Saturday, February 6th, 9am PST
Dial in: 646/519/5830
Access code: 7244

Identify & Obliterate Six Barriers to Your Success!

It’s the beginning of yet another year, and as many of us sit with pencil in hand we might be thinking…”Should I even bother to set new goals again this year…and if so… will it even make a difference?
 
At the beginning of every year we all start out at zero….and it seems daunting to look at next December and wonder how we are going to “get there”!  Will we beat this year’s numbers? Will this be the first year that you will really focus on success and
profitability?

 It’s all about what you do and how you do it…. but this time…differently! 
We would all like for those goals to become a true reality!
Like every physical act, we start with a thought process; which leads to a
vision or a picture of what we want. The professionals that plan and implement
their plan enjoy a different level of satisfaction and enjoy higher levels of
success than those of us who fail to plan and hope for the best.

 But visions are tough to come by if you don’t have a passion or purpose for your
work.  No matter what your goal, if you have a vision, focus and a plan to get there,
you still need the “fire in the belly” to deliver the end results.
So what you really need is a compelling purpose that won’t let you go astray.

  The question is, “What is your “magnetic compelling purpose?”
Do you have a dream that is so all-consuming that you wouldn’t give up until you made
it happen?  Perfect! That’s the kind of resolve that gets results. 
 
 So back to those New Year’s Resolutions…

 It is easy to get excited about resolutions in the early days of January, but to
make it all work, you’ll need to decide if you are excited enough to get serious
about the process and ultimately follow through to completion.

  It’s a fact that goals and resolutions barely have a chance to grow until we get them
in writing, and when we convert those thoughts to document, we are on the right path
to make them real and viable!

 You’ll need to SEE them, SHOW them to others, or DISPLAY them on your refrigerator as a reminder.  When our resolutions are not written down they are much like the wind; here for the moment…then gone forever!

 Here are six challenges that keep our resolutions from becoming a reality. 
You might want to be aware of them to you can make 2010 your best year ever.

1. Lack of Clarity: The more detail you attach to a goal or resolution, the more
likely you are to follow through on it. Describe it with whys (for the purpose of ..),
whens (completion dates and interim progress dates), whats (including mention of
your current reality, and what the end game will look like upon completion),
and any other details that will help you vividly see the vision. 
Don’t worry! You can’t overdo the detail! Lack of detail equals lack of clarity.

2. Lack of Commitment: When you are serious enough to write resolutions down and
share them with others, it is your way of making a commitment to the process. 
We simultaneously put the universe on notice that this is our intent. 
Goethe said “The moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too.” 
Your discipline to follow through demonstrates your continued commitment.

3. Lack of Belief: Human behavior is the result of the human belief system. 
If you believe your resolution is doable, believe you have a strategy to make it
happen, and believe in yourself, you can’t miss.  If you are filled with doubt
you will fail to go to the next step.  This is no time to be timid.  BE BOLD! 
Share your resolutions with others! This helps reinforce your belief that you can do it.

4. Lack of Passion: Vision without action is hallucination!  Fire in the belly
propels you toward action and results.  Step number one is having the courage to get
started on your clarified resolutions. Get fired up! Get started! And Go for it! 
Seeing even a small amount of progress is all it takes to inspire you to take the
next step.

5.  Lack of Congruence: Your resolutions need to be in sync not only with your
belief system, but also with your other goals, and your capabilities.   If it is
too outlandish or unrealistic, the incongruence of it will short-circuit your
belief in your ability to get it done.  It will be a non-starter.  Make it as
significant as you can and still believe you can do it.

6. Lack of focus … Writing down clarified resolutions is the first step of an
exciting process, if we can keep our focus.  Can you vow to stay focused on the
vision?  Schedule specific follow through actions for specific times to help keep
you connected.  The difference between high performers and mediocre producers is
a focused intensity accompanied by the determination that you will not be denied!
Few people realize the power and potential which are derived from crafting one’s
“Magnetic Compelling Purpose”.  During times of challenge like these, people tend
to gravitate either toward scarcity or abundance.  The majority who go toward
scarcity are focused on problems and the negative aspects of their existence. 
Those who go toward abundance are more focused on possibilities and progress, and
that prosperity consciousness is what inspires many people to take the actions
that propel them into the next realm of their life.  It doesn’t matter where you
went to school, or how old you are.  Freedom to excel in America is your individual
birthright.

If you can articulate what your “Magnetic Compelling Purpose” is, put it in writing,
and fine-tune it, you are on your way.  Serious resolutions and statements of purpose
tend to cause one to behave the way the person they hope to become behaves.
Be courageous and take action today on your written plan for success in 2010 and beyond!  

Then heed the words of my literary mentor, Orison Swett Marden, who said…
“Make every day a great day of achievement, because you never know when God might
be watching, sizing you up for bigger things.”
 
Terri Murphy is an author, speaker, e-communication consultant, and author
of 5 books, including her latest with Donald Trump.  She is the founder and Pres. of
WomensWisdomNetwork.com and serves as CIO of U. S. Learning in Memphis, and
serves as one of the 12 GAME CHANGERS coaches for NAR.
email: Terri@TerriMurphy.com or visit: www.TerriMurphy.com

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Yawn….Seems like everybody has something to say about starting a new decade…a new year. There are plenty of prolific writings about the excitement of starting anew….

It IS all about new beginnings – but it really comes down to the same thing; If you want change, you must want it bad enough that the pain NOT to change is more painful than making the change itself.

The question to ponder is ….

Am I becoming the person I wanted to be, living the kind of life I had dreamed?  With so many people in this country on anti-depressants, my guess is that the “unhappiness” we feel is not from having too much or too little of anything, but rather a disconnect in not having what we had dreamed about having, being and doing.

If we really can change and do believe we really can, then why is it so many of us fail at these fervent but weak resolutions? 

What separates the winners from the losers are the ACTION-able steps to change the direction of your life and the belief that you can change the outcome, and it begins with the power of compounding positive or negative steps to our goals.

Health: We all know we need to be more proactive about our health – that said, if you are younger in age, you don’t feel the same pressure to focus on a healthier lifestyle as those of us who are farther down the runway of life. Losing a couple of pounds a month can a good goal, but facing 20-30 pounds at one time may seem unattainable.  If you want to be healthier you’ve got to start MOVING.   Walking is a cheap and simple way to get in better shape. Bottom line: start a new walking program with a friend or bunch of friends. Too cold? Find a mall – Too warm? Find a mall

Finances:  Saving money? – Now there’s a challenge! Spend an extra dollar a week and you are out $50+…Save a dollar, well, you get the picture.  How much time have you invested in actually seeing where your money goes every day? You might be seriously surprised to find many ways you can re-direct your spending and ultimately your income.  Look at the many entrepreneurial business opportunities available with little start up needed in both money and time to build your income.

Self Improvement: So you want to be better read? Get a library card and schedule a couple of hours a week reading away from home so you meet your goal. Perhaps you want to improve your language skills.  Check out low cost or free programs in the local schools and universities and begin the path to becoming and doing what you visualized for your life

Social: Want more friends? Make some new ones. Learn how to be a better friend to others and you’ll become a better attracter of the kind of friends you’d like to have

Get a Coach: Can’t stay focused? Getting a coach can improve the odds of your getting where you want to go.  Coach Anne Bachrach has no problem kicking your butt into action to keep you on target to get what you said you wanted. (http://www.accountabilitycoach.com/) 

Excuses: We all are faced with crazy schedules, interruptions, no money, no time, no energy, etc. But as our good friend Giovanni Livera, speaker, trainer and master magician says “No Change? No Change!” (http://www.giovanniexperiences.com/)  You can’t expect a change if there is no change in your behavior! There really are no excuses, but rather that we get lost due to our lack of focus, our lack of planning and the discipline needed to delay immediate gratification. 

What if….you could really change your lifestyle, cash flow, energy level, improve your health, be a better husband, wife, son, daughter, or friend?   We live in a land of unlimited opportunity! So dream a little dream and then let nothing get in the way of your having your best life now.

Terri Murphy

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If you think it’s been a tough year, bad market and find yourself thinking from a scarcity point of view, you might find yourself believing that there is little you can do to get more business…Think again!

Before you go with “scarcity thinking”, expert Harvey MacKay gives us 66 creative and meaningful ways to connect with even the most elusive prospects.

MacKay is the bestselling author of “Swim with the Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive”. He says, “Anyone can get the order if he’s willing to stretch the truth far enough. Whether you tell the truth or not, you don’t come out a winner just by getting the first big order. The mark of the pro is to get the RE-Order!”  That said, ask yourself these questions:

What am I willing to do to connect with a prospective client? (Or do I quit after a few attempts?)

Am I just trying to get another sale, or are their ways I can make an investment in a long term relationship?

In order to differentiate my service offering, by adding more value for this prospect by doing business with me?

A great lesson from MacKay’s book is found in Lesson #3 – He says, “Knowing something about your customer is just as important as knowing everything about you or your product”.

 MacKay was so passionate about wanting to know all he could about his customers; he is famous for developing his MacKay “66” question profile for each of his sales people to fill out on their customers. He is adamant that when we know more about our customer, we enjoy a huge advantage when they know we care about them, their needs and ultimately then we have earned the right to work with them.

All too often we fail the first step many high paid coaches, consultants and top performers knows and teaches:  Do a deep and thorough needs analysis of what THEY want, and not what you HAVE.  But first you have to get the appointment and be willing to accept the challenge of winning their business.

Asking questions and then clarifying the answers is one of the most powerful ways to establish confidence and begin building a bridge of trust between you and your prospect.  They want to know that you know not only what they want, but most importantly, why they want it. It is only when you act as their sales leader that you can help them determine what the appropriate solutions to their needs will actually be.  

Many times we approach our buyers and sellers with a barrage of self-serving information about our experience, tout top testimonials and are convinced that WE are the answer to their needs, when in fact, that may not be the case at all!  Regardless of your outstanding sales volume, negotiating acumen and years of experience, if they need a sales person who can speak Vietnamese, you may not be their best choice! 

The battle cry for successful sales that will never go out of style – RELATIONSHIP selling is the key to more sales. Ask well thought out questions, be a skilled active listener, and craft solutions with your prospects for best results.  You may not subscribe to doing a MacKay “66”, but knowing all the facts, motivations, limitations and best solutions for your customer will pave the way to create raving fans and endless referrals.

Bio: Terri Murphy is a speaker, communication consultant, and author of 5 books, including her latest with Donald Trump. She is the founder and Pres. of WomensWisdomNetwork.com and serves as CIO of U. S. Learning in Memphis.  email: Terri@TerriMurphy.com – for more information on the MacKay “66” visit http://www.harveymackay.com/tools/index.cfm

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 ever,  accompanied by some powerful axioms.

Don and I send our love.  Happy holidays to each of you.

God Bless,
Terri Murphy and Don Hutson

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At every level of a service,  care and concern rank as top elements for what our customers express when they describe extraordinary service. And in ,most  cases, every one of us prefers to have our needs not only met, but anticipated, which ultimately makes the outcome more impressive, and inevitably more powerful.

At a time in our calendar year when it is customary to “give” to others, it is apparent that when we authentically have interest in creating a joyful event for others, that the real gift is GIVING…which makes the “doing” part (service) the key.

Caring about a customer’s needs, or when you are genuinely concerned about the outcome of their using your products, can make quite an immediate difference in our success and ultimately our reputation. In today’s world of instant global commentary and reviews, it is incumbent upon us to be aware of how the consequences of that commentary, good or bad, from our customer’s perspective will affect our business going forward.

We’ve often heard how it is the “thought” that counts, and in many cases, that “thought” means so much more than any one thing.  The “thing” becomes the physical reminder that someone “thought” enough to give us some THING to show some level of care.

But at a time when we think about giving, let’s think a bit more about WHAT and HOW we give; Gifts of time, attention, follow up, and concern can be more powerful and lasting than an expensive gift or a holiday basket brimming with goodies.

People never forget the “time” that they were helped, assisted, guided, lead, referred to or connected with someone through someone that helped them get their needs met.  Think about being stranded on a cold snowy highway with a flat tire, and a caring passerby helped you out…priceless!

At the core of all good service is caring; caring that another person or company got what they expected and more.  In business, this always helps convert what might have been a simple sales transaction into making a connection that ultimately becomes a friend…and that friend refers you to their friends, and you know how that referral can grow.

Yet so many of us neglect the details – the extra call, the follow up on a simple detail that if missed could have dire consequences on the timeliness of a business or personal transaction.   At a time of the year when giving is heralded as better than receiving…let’s re-think how we give of ourselves, our expertise, our attention, our ability to observe and capture opportunities to be a better service provider, not just to get more sales, but to be the provider of great experiences for those we work for and those we love.

Caring is a gift that is never too big or too small and is guaranteed to always fit. It is a gift that everyone wants, and if you are lucky, is the one gift you hope is returned and re-gifted often!

Bio: Terri Murphy is an author, speaker, e-communication consultant, and author of 5 books, including her latest with Donald Trump. She is the founder and Pres. of WomensWisdomNetwork.com and serves as CIO of U. S. Learning in Memphis.  email: Terri@TerriMurphy.com

Terri Murphy has been honored by the National Association of REALTORS® (NAR) as one of the 12 national experts to head a new initiative to improve the functional processes of Realtors® across the country thru outside the box projects to engage and better serve consumers.  The announcement was made by Dale Stinton, NAR’s Chief Executive Officer.

 In August 2009, NAR instituted the Game Changers Challenge, whereby NAR challenged its 1,500 Local REALTOR® Boards, State Association of REALTORS ® and Institutes, Societies and Councils. REALTORS® were charged with creating benefits and programs to assist its membership during current economic conditions. REALTORS® encouraged state and local associations to take new perspectives of day-to-day work, focus on the value of finding new ideas and formulate them to answer the challenge. These game changing ideas must have an impact on the association, a new product, program, process or service that improves the REALTOR® organization.   Terri is joined by 11 other national leaders including former chief economist, John Tuccillo, John Featherstone,(RISMedia)  Steve Murray (Real Trends), Nancy Wilson Smith (Former NAR V.P) and Jeremy Conaway, (Recon Intelligence)
 
These submissions are expected to help revolutionize service and communication throughout the industry.

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